Men see better then they think
Just a couple of words about pornography-----------not good.
The photos, be they on the internet, in a magazine or a billboard are very one sided and I don't think men realize that when being exposed to it or when they go looking for it.
It is all about relationship. When you are looking at pornography, the act makes you feel good but all that is happening is stimulation. Basically a chemical reaction. You have bypassed other emotional checks and balances that would prevent you from interacting with this woman.
You are reacting to the following:
The appearance that the woman is offering herself to you. (When in reality, she would not offer herself to just anyone on a good day!)
You think about touching the untouchable.
The false belief that bigger is better. (We might as well find big feet or a big nose sexually stimulating.)
The picture takes the reality out of context. (Where will this interaction take place?,
Will the room be warm or cold, will you be caught?)
Men have been trained to see better then they think by our culture. Honey West was my introduction as to "how a woman should look". Think of the countless women who are portrayed in the movies and what our expectations are about these women.
A relationship with another person does not just involve the body, but the mind and the heart as well.
We need to break the cycle of pornography and put it back in context of relationship. Once we do that, then the cycle can be broken. No woman wants sex all the time like the photos suggest. They want affection, relationship and security - the same thing men want.
Men, next time you see pornography, put it in context and break the cycle. Because if you don't, in the end pornography; if it doesn't destroy you, it will pick away at your mind and steal your ability to have a full blown relationship with the woman your truly love.
The photos, be they on the internet, in a magazine or a billboard are very one sided and I don't think men realize that when being exposed to it or when they go looking for it.
It is all about relationship. When you are looking at pornography, the act makes you feel good but all that is happening is stimulation. Basically a chemical reaction. You have bypassed other emotional checks and balances that would prevent you from interacting with this woman.
You are reacting to the following:
The appearance that the woman is offering herself to you. (When in reality, she would not offer herself to just anyone on a good day!)
You think about touching the untouchable.
The false belief that bigger is better. (We might as well find big feet or a big nose sexually stimulating.)
The picture takes the reality out of context. (Where will this interaction take place?,
Will the room be warm or cold, will you be caught?)
Men have been trained to see better then they think by our culture. Honey West was my introduction as to "how a woman should look". Think of the countless women who are portrayed in the movies and what our expectations are about these women.
A relationship with another person does not just involve the body, but the mind and the heart as well.
We need to break the cycle of pornography and put it back in context of relationship. Once we do that, then the cycle can be broken. No woman wants sex all the time like the photos suggest. They want affection, relationship and security - the same thing men want.
Men, next time you see pornography, put it in context and break the cycle. Because if you don't, in the end pornography; if it doesn't destroy you, it will pick away at your mind and steal your ability to have a full blown relationship with the woman your truly love.
posted by Glen at 10:03 AM
1 Comments:
There is also something safe about pornography. No intimacy, no relationship, no cost or investment. This is why men addicted to pornography (and women too) do not have intimacy with their spouses.
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